arXiv:2608.11865v1 Announce Type: new Abstract: Self-attention has become central to spiking vision transformers, yet its query-key scoring is still largely inherited from dense networks. Existing spiking variants either simplify dot product scoring or replace it with discrete operators, but spike timing, the native variable of a spiking network, does not directly define how tokens are related. We propose Lapis, a spiking attention mechanism that scores each token pair by the L1 distance between its query and key first-spike latency vectors under time-to-first-spike coding, and maps this distance to an affinity through a Laplacian kernel. The kernel's exponential decay matches the impulse response of a leaky integrate-and-fire membrane, so the accumulated latency difference determines the decay of a membrane trace, while row normalization reduces to a bit shift under power-of-two rounding. Scoring therefore needs only subtraction, absolute value, and accumulation, and removes all multi...